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| Divorce & Child Custody
Mediation Center
“Divorce is not the end of one’s family, it’s
the beginning of a family reorganization.”
K. Memel
Do you know anyone:
Getting divorced?
Having child custody disputes?
Not knowing whether to stay married or get divorced?
Needing help with their relationship?
CALL KATHY MEMEL,
Ph.D, MFT
Professional Mediator
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
- Supportive, Caring and Confidential
- Understand the Steps of a Divorce
- Help Couples Reach Fair, Legal Divorce Settlement
- No Court Appearances Necessary
- Many Cases Handled in 3-10 Sessions
- 80% - 90% LESS $$$, Time & Stress than Litigated Divorce
- Over 25 years experience
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| Child Custody Mediation
Mediation offers an objective viewpoint to help parents in understanding the emotional and developmental needs of their children.
Couples who attempt to resolve parenting difficulties are most successful when they have learned effective ways of communicating with each other.
The goal of mediation is to reach a mutually acceptable Parenting Plan for you and your child, or children, and to work cooperatively in the creation of options for parental consideration. The mediator does not make any decisions; the parents do.
All issues pertaining to the Parenting Plan are negotiated in good faith. Therefore, it is essential that both parents share all pertinent information in mediation. Most meetings are held with both parents and the mediator. At least one of the sessions, or a partial one, is held with each of the parents separately. The content of separate sessions and phone calls remain confidential.
Meetings are held until resolution is reached. A Parenting Plan Agreement is then prepared, signed by both parents, and filed with the court.
Nothing is signed unless both parents are in full agreement. Parents
may also take the proposed agreement to their attorneys for review
before signing or either parent's attorney may prepare and file
the final agreement. Partial resolution may also be reached, with
the remainder of issues to be resolved by independent counsel and
the court.
The focus is on the best interest of the children. Working together,
we reach agreements that.
- are appropriate to the age of the children
- provide the children access to both parents
- facilitate cooperative parenting
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Focus on –
The Children's' Best Interests
The primary focus during Child Custody mediation is on the best interest of the children. Working together, we will reach agreements that ... |
- are appropriate to the age of the children
- provide the children access to both parents
- acilitate cooperative parenting
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Child
Custody & Divorce
It Doesn't Have To Be A Battle
Disputes over the highly-emotional issues of child custody and
visitation can turn divorce proceedings into prolonged, bitter conflicts
that intensify the anger, frustration and stress for all involved.
Parents can lose sight of what is best for their children when confronted
with accusations, acrimony and fears arising from the loss of family
and daily contact with their children. If not handled properly,
these conflicts can cause a range of behavioral problems that will
impact the children throughout their lives. In many cases, these
inflamed emotional issues draw attorneys into areas which they have
neither the time nor psychological training to address fully.
Fortunately, there is an alternative, cooperative means to resolve
such conflicts out-of-court for the benefit of all - parents, children
and attorneys.
In the state of California, the "Mandatory Mediation Law"
requires that mediation must take place by either private or court-appointed
mediators before any contested custody or visitation dispute comes
before a judicial officer. Mediators bring their professional expertise
to deal with highly-charged emotional issues in an effective, efficient,
non-adversarial manner. Barring cases involving abuse, they can-and
do-help parents create a parenting plan that works for their family. |
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